我們談到話語的重要性,同時我們如何與人溝通是重要的,想像一個外送來到你的門口敲你的門,是小心的將你的東西交給你或是用扔的。
我們應該和平的方式來與人溝通,但在衝突產生的時候,這確實不容易。
我們需要學習在衝突中如何與人溝通,在衝突中不妨先尋求理解及著重連結,表達我們的感受及需要,唯有此方式才能雙贏,而非僅僅贏得了爭論,這其中卻只有一個贏家。
We talked about the important of words. At the same time, how we communicate to one another is as important. Imagine a delivery guy comes to your door and just drop off you package gently versus throwing it.
We ought to communicate to one another in a peaceful way. But that’s really hard when there is a conflict.
we are learning how to communicate to one another during conflict. We must first seek understanding and connection, tell the other person how you feel and what you need. This is the only way to have a win-win outcome and instead of just winning the argument, where there is only one winner.
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